Your farewell, just the way you want it
The hardest day for your loved ones becomes lighter when everything is already lovingly arranged. Record your wishes — from the music to your own funeral card — and PSILY will communicate them at the right time.
All wishes in one place
Burial or cremation, the music that should sound, the location, who should speak, grave rights with documents — all in structured steps that you fill out at your own pace and can always adjust.
Your own funeral card and mailing lists
Design or upload your own funeral card and invitation to the service, and get the mailing lists ready. Your loved ones don't have to figure out anything anymore — everything is ready, right down to who needs to get a card.
Personal messages when you say goodbye
Add personal messages to your funeral plan — in text, audio, or video, each with their own title. Your loved ones and the funeral director will receive a complete, worthy overview as a PDF.
FAQs
Can I arrange my own funeral online?
You record all your wishes: burial or cremation, music, location, speakers, your own condolence card and address lists. You fill in everything at your own pace and can always adjust it.
What happens to my funeral wishes after my death?
Your loved ones and the funeral director receive a complete and dignified overview of all your wishes as a PDF — including documents and personal messages. That way, no one has to guess what you wanted.
Can I design my own condolence card?
Yes. You design or upload your own condolence card and the invitation to the service, and prepare the associated address lists.
Who gets to see my funeral wishes?
The people you designate, at the moment it's needed. You specify per section who is responsible for what, so no one has to guess who arranges what.
Do I have to fill in everything at once?
No. Most people do it in stages: first the big choices, later the music and details. Everything you enter is ready immediately and you can continue at any time.
Can I also add music and photos?
Yes. You upload photos, videos and music files or save YouTube links with your music choices, so there's no doubt during the service about what you meant.
Why bereaved family members benefit most from this
When someone has to arrange a funeral, they do it in the week when they're least able to. Within days, there are dozens of questions: burial or cremation, which music, which location, who speaks, who should be invited. Every question you've answered in advance is a discussion they don't have to have.
It's rarely just about big decisions. It's the small things that provide comfort: that one song, the color of the flowers, that you didn't want speeches. Bereaved family members often say afterwards that they were especially relieved not to have to guess.
You also record the practical side: your funeral director's details and insurance, where the policy is, whether there are grave rights and where to find that document. And you can add personal messages — in text, audio or video — that are shown during or after the service.
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- record your will and notary details
- prepare personal farewell messages
- how PSILY knows when the time has come
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Arrange it now — with peace of mind
Laid down today, tomorrow will be one less thing to worry about, for you and for them.
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