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Fully plan your own funeral — just the way you want it

With PSILY's funeral planning, you can define in detail what your farewell should look like: from music and location to your own funeral card, mailing lists and insurance policy. Everything gets to the right people at the right time.

Arranging a funeral is one of the toughest tasks that exist for relatives. In a few days, dozens of decisions have to be made, while the sadness is still fresh. What would they have wanted? Burial or cremate? What kind of music? Who should be invited? With PSILY's funeral planning, you can relieve your loved ones of all that doubt — by recording it for yourself now, in peace and quiet.

Everything in one place, down to the last detail

In your Psily account, you'll find the Funeral Planning tab. There, you'll explain step by step what your farewell should look like:

Burial or cremation

The big choice first: bury or cremate. In addition, you record the desired location — a specific cemetery or a crematorium — so that there never has to be a discussion about it.

The music for your service

Music makes a farewell personal. Decide which songs to play, and when: upon arrival, during the service or when they are broadcast. Your soundtrack, your choice.

Grave rights and documents

Do you already have a grave or grave rights? Capture the details and upload the grave law document, with photos if you want. Relatives find everything immediately — no searching through folders and loading at the most difficult moment.

Your own funeral card and invitations

Unique to PSILY: you upload your own design for the funeral card and for the service invitation (as a PDF or image). That's how you decide what it looks like — right down to the card that people receive at home.

Address lists: who gets a card, who gets invited

Upload an address list of everyone who needs to receive a funeral card, and a separate list of who should be invited to the service. No one is forgotten, and your loved ones don't have to puzzle over who “belonged”.

Your funeral insurance policy

Many people don't know where their loved one was insured. Upload your policy into PSILY, and your loved ones and the funeral director will know it immediately. This saves costs, time and stress.

Your own funeral director

Do you already have your eye on a funeral director? Capture name, contact person, phone number, and email address. When necessary, the entrepreneur automatically receives the full overview of your wishes — including all documents and the contact details of your loved ones.

All other wishes

Clothing, flowers, speakers, transport, the coffee table — add your own block of text for each section. This way, your funeral plan grows in exactly as much detail as you want.

With the right people at the right time

The difference with a folder in the closet? PSILY delivers everything automatically when needed. You designate the people who should receive the overview. As soon as your account is activated, they will receive the complete funeral plan — as a clear PDF by email and in their own Psily account, with all documents downloadable. Your funeral director will also be informed automatically.

Until then, everything remains private. You can change, supplement, or revise your plan at any time — it is and will remain your story.

Get started today, in ten minutes

Making a funeral plan sounds tough, but it mainly feels like relief. Most people lay out the basics in ten minutes: burial or cremation, three numbers, and who needs to know. You fill in the rest whenever you want. Create an account for free and soon give your loved ones the best thing you can give at such a moment: clarity.

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